Min Xu: Boudoir Photographer
Meet Min Xu
Being brought up in the conservative Chinese society, we, especially females, are always judged what we wear and how we look.
My mom never thought I was good looking, and she wanted me to wear push-up bras because I have small boobs 😂 and she wanted me to wear makeup and dress up well because “you will be more attractive”… She would even buy me dresses which she thought were nice… Unfortunately the expectations of society on us women and the wrong people around us make us upset. I’m glad I didn’t stay home and chose my own path and people I want to be around with.
That judgement and negtive comments on us makes lots of women ashamed of their bodies. And of course I was one of them. Everyone feels self-conscious about their body from time to time. I was always very confident behind the camera, but never in front of. One day I decided to challenge myself to be on the other side of the camera and get a boudoir shoot done. That was LIFE CHANGING. Since then I started modeling and decided to shoot boudoir exclusively to empower more women!
I’m sure you’ve heard me saying “all bodies are beautiful” a million times, and I’m also sure that half the time you were super inspired and the other half of the time you chickened out.
However, when you realize, and really take to heart, that so much of the things you worry about are unnecessary, then you’ll feel so much better about yourself.
I’ve met so many women who are already beautiful but they feel they have to live up to the wild beauty standards that society has set.
However, I think beauty is how you choose to present yourself. What I’m doing is to capture your confidence and your personality through tasteful and intimate photos. I take pride in bringing out the inner goddess of every woman and helping them forget about the judgement and negative comments, and eventually fall in love with themselves.
I have extensive experience in photography and understand how being photographed works as I myself am a model for other photographers.
Trust me, when you see yourself so beautiful and sexy in the photos, you’ll become addicted.